Love when happens to a person it is not to be taken for granted instead he or she should always remember their part of effort to make it a happy relationship. Following are five most important actions to preserve love and happiness in your life:
1. Be kind to everyone: It is this attitude of yours that would never let any other conflicting person to intrude between you and your loved one that could otherwise lead to serious misunderstandings. This also means keeping blind trust on your other half which would itself make conflicting people weak and cannot affect your love life.
2. Maintain loyalty: Putting serious effort into your relationship is necessary to keep it happening even after a long time. Cheating on somebody would never let you be content because you would always be in a fear of doing something wrong inside your mind even if your spouse has no hint of it.
3. Do not miss a chance to tell how much you love: Even if it is too mainstream and flattery invariably every person loves to hear this from his or her spouse. This way of speaking your heart out can actually make your girl or boy to have a sense of security and have faith in your love.
4. Let tears nourish the healing: To show anger on your partner for something not worth it may lead to serious issues in the relationship. It is best to cry out your outrage and talk calmly because it is the best way solving problems in love. Continue reading
True friendship is seen through the heart and the way a person feels about someone. Actions speak louder than words in friendship. If someone is feeling depressed then the friend should be there to cheer them up. Friendships are very much about give and take. Someone cannot do all the giving without feeling used and abused. Alternatively, a true friend cannot do all the taking without feeling guilty and not giving anything back, in return. Friendship is give and take. True friendships meet in the middle and compromise without hurting one another’s feelings. True friendships only happen a couple of times in a lifetime and should be treasured. A person can be a friend without being a true friend. A person may acknowledge someone and be friendly with them without putting themselves out for that person. A true friend would sacrifice a lot so that they can be a good friend.
Friendship is all about understanding one another and being familiar with each other’s personality. It is about sharing likes and dislikes, having the same interests, pursuits and passions. Potential friendships often start with a common bond that both people share. This could be anything from liking the same music to having children of a similar age. Genuine friendships show that they care for one another by having the desire to see each other grow and flourish. Friends genuinely care about each other’s best interests. They want their friend to be happy in whatever they do and encourage them to fulfill their dreams. Friends should give each other freedom and not be demanding or possessive True friends understand that the person has a life outside of the friendship and that they want to pursue their own friendships.
True friendships involve doing something for another person without expecting anything back in return. A friend should be able to talk about their thoughts and feelings without fearing that they are going to be judged or receive negative criticism. True friendships require work and effort, especially when building the relationship. It takes time to build friendships, get to know one another and make happy memories. Trust is crucial in any genuine friendship. Friends need to share their deepest secrets together in confidence. Continue reading
Love will always come and if a person isn’t ready for it, it will just pass by but true love only comes once in a lifetime. Unfortunately, most people have no idea on how to handle real love. Love is a complicated thing and if not handled carefully, it spills off causing more pain than any other thing in this world. That is why most people say, “I’d rather fall off a cliff than fall in love.” Such people have experienced the pain of losing that real love they had found once in life.
Among the many mistakes that people commit while in love is not giving time for each other or that partner they really love. Spending time with one another is more precious than gifts, flowers and chocolates. When couples see each other once in three or four days and they are living in the same neighborhood, it’s really alarming. If someone keeps coming up with excuses maybe by saying that they are held up at work or something, it really annoys. If it continues for a while, the person being kept waiting will sooner or later walk away. This person should not be blamed because he or she is of no importance to the partner. If it was a real love, it means that it is lost because this couple had no time for each other.
It’s really important to sacrifice even that extra hour together as a way of showing that you really care for your partner. You should also learn to appreciate your partner even for the little things he or she does to you. Complementing one another is also another recipe that spices up a relationship not forgetting communication. Most relationships are lost due to lack of communication. In case of a disagreement, couples would prefer consulting their friends on the way to go about. Well, friends are good but you can’t trust your friend when it comes to your relationship issues. Sit down together, talk about your issue. Be open to one another and forgiveness should always be on the forefront. Even if you aren’t on the wrong and your partner is, don’t accuse him or her. Simply let him or her know that you weren’t happy and you are ready to forgive because you value your relationship more. Your ego should always come last after your relationship. Continue reading
Do long distance relationships work? In many cases it seems to degrade slowly until there is no relationship left at all. However, in other cases it does work, if both the parties put in efforts to keep the spark alive. There are ups and downs or so to say pros and cons of a long distance relationship and some of them are mentioned below.
Long distance relationship ups and downs
Ups or pros
You get to know each other better. In common relationships many couples are just “activity partners” in the courting stage. They dine and party, watch movies together and cuddle on the couch. Though they see each other every now and then it is not necessary that they understand each other well. In long distance relationships, the only option you have is communication, which ensures you get to know each other really well.
You start appreciating the good moments you spent together and thus do not take each other for granted.
Both of you can focus on your career. Being in love does not mean you will stop studying or will stop being attentive at work. Long distance relationship gives you complete time to maintain an active lifestyle and give equal importance to your work and love life.
You can hang around with friends and party. In usual relationship your maximum time is spent with your boyfriend/girlfriend, so you do not have much time left to do crazy things with friends.
Downs or cons
You feel lonely at times. There will be moment s when you feel really low and wish he/she was around to give you a hug.
No physical intimacy. You cannot kiss, hug, hold each other or cuddle in bed. These can make surviving really difficult.
Conflicts and misunderstanding can prove to be really challenging. You are miles away and if your beloved is upset with you and chooses not to talk, what can you do? That can be very frustrating. Continue reading
Call it girlfriend, partner, better half; whatever you call it, you have to admit that everyone needs a better half in order for his or her life to become more meaningful. However, no matter how hard you try to make things work with your love life, there will always be times when you need to let go because it seems that the odds are never in your favor. Well, there is a very simple reason why. Once you have a relationship, you need to work on it constantly. It needs continuous efforts from both parties in order for your love life to keep on improving. Here are some tips on how to improve love life and relationship.
Tip 1: Always Be Thankful
Gratitude is something that some people forget to practice. They sometimes forget to appreciate their partner thus, the partner becomes tired of doing his or her everyday efforts. Make sure that you show appreciation for each other every now and then whether these gestures are big or small.
Tip 2: Respect Each Other
No matter how hard it gets in a relationship and no matter how awful and argument may be, make sure that you still treat it other with respect. Try your best not to say things you might regret and do not hurt your partner physically. Respect also includes believing in the decisions your partner makes regarding other aspects in his or her life.
Tip 3: Try New Things Together
When you ask ex-couples on why they broke up, Continue reading